What If I Don’t Know What I Want?

Published in Positivity by Chere Bork MS, RDN on October 26, 2013
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As a Law of Attraction Facilitator I have discovered people do not know what they want but they surely know what they don’t want! Here are two client examples of contrast through clarity.

 

Lisa: Contrast Through Clarity for a new job

I attract to my life what I focus my energy, attention and focus to, whether positive or negative.

Contrast What I don’t Want Clarity

  • Don’t like sitting at my computer                                                    
  • Long commute like D/C                                                                        
  • No opportunity to give talks or seminars                    
  • Don’t love details and spreadsheets                                      
  • Working on someone else’ schedule                                                                                                                                                                    
  • Do the same thing every day                                                            

 

 What I do want

  • Want to be in the mountains, beach, nice resort
  • Working from my own office space 5 hours a day
  • Giving talks on wellness
  • Love the big picture and creating
  • My own schedule
  • Can walk with voice recorder and get ideas
  • Can ride my bike, see nature and be inspired
  • Events scheduled around my schedule & kids & grandkids

Stephanie:  Contrast Through Clarity for her ideal LIFE 

I attract to my life what I focus my energy, attention and focus to, whether positive or negative.

 

Contrast What I don’t Want  

  • Don’t want to be too busy                                                                               
  • Don’t want to be tired                                                                                     
  • Don’t want to be broke                                                                                    
  • Don’t want to get sick                                                                                      
  • Don’t want to be able to vacation                                                             
  • Don’t want to do free presentations                                                       
  • Don’t want to be married to my biz                                                         
  • Don’t want to do the same thing every day                                          
  • Don’t want to focus solely on my career                                                

Clarity What I do want

  • Want to busy but not overworked
  •  Want time to go to sleep
  • Want to spend $ and take care of myself
  • Want to stay healthy 
  •  Vacations 1 to 2 times a year and couple weekends
  • Want to get paid for my expertise
  • Want balance in my life
  • Want variety and flexibility
  • Want to focus on career and relationships
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From Chere Bork

I love my life! I have a passion and a purpose to share my recipe for health and happiness with RDNs and others – maybe even more so now that I’ve officially retired. If you want to learn what I discovered through coaching 1000 people over 9000 hours check out my final post, “Live Like This Is Your Last Day. Someday It Will Be!”

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